Though Thanksgiving has passed, I am finding myself more thankful than ever for the love, support and encouragement of those in my life. Where would I be without you? I am going through a rough time right now and am so thankful that during those rough times I can reach out to friends "old" and "new" and be lifted up. With one SOS e-mail, I was rescued by friends who are going through so much of their own stuff right now. (One of them is most likely having her baby today!) Yet, all of them took the time to reach out to me and pray for me because they care. God has surrounded me with a great group of friends in my new world as well. I am so thankful to them for reaching out at just the right moment with the gifts of time, food and hospitality.
I am thankful for my husband (safely landed in the US as I type this) who has so much on his own plate, yet he takes some off of mine when he sees that I need it. I am thankful to my children, who put up with so much from me. Because I am alone right now, I am overextended, exhausted and spent the day battling another round of mastitis. I am thankful that our children understood that we didn't have time to properly decorate the house for Christmas this year and I am thankful that they don't fully understand that St. Nicholas is supposed to be coming to our house tonight putting chocolate and toys in their slippers. I am thankful that I didn't have to set out beer for him (!?) and carrots for his horse. Nathan is satisfied that they saw him on Sunday and he will be making another appearance at school tomorrow. I am thankful to God for grace and grace and grace. I am so undeserving, but so loved by my Father.
Thank you friends and family for your love, support, encouragement and prayers. Keep it
coming...
Super Mom Has Left the Building
By Marybeth Whalen
"It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery." Galatians 5:1 (NIV)
Devotion:I just have to insert something in the midst of this busy season we call Christmas:"You can't do it all." And I don't think I can say that enough. I found this entry in my journal from years ago, and I thought you might like to read it...
Someday...
I'll remember to order those cute Christmas return address labels for my cards.
I'll bake real gingerbread houses like Martha Stewart instead of buying those cheap, cheesy kits.
I'll finish my shopping early instead of waiting to the last minute.
I'll hand make gifts for all our neighbors, teachers, postal carriers, and garbage men.
I'll wrap presents that look like the ones in the magazines, not like a kindergartner did it.
I'll actually do all those service projects that look like a worthy thing to do.
Someday... is not now.
Whatever season in life you are in this Christmas, embrace it. There will be other times to do all those things you want to do. Or not. Whatever your situation is, trust that God is sovereign and He ordained for you to be where you are at this time, for His purpose. There is something to be gained from every season in life. The trick is to find that piece of wisdom God has for you in the midst of each season.
When the angel appeared to Mary, he told her some pretty shocking news about what was going to happen to her. His message ushered her into a season in life that included confusion, rejection and some pretty extreme transition. And yet, her response was "May it be to me as you have said" (Luke 1:38).
I want Mary's reaction to be my own reaction. I want my attitude to be one of complete surrender to God's will, no matter what the circumstances. I want to be able to say with confidence "May it be to me as you have said" instead of whining to God, "Why did you let this happen to me?" like I usually do.The first step in embracing every season is to let go of our own expectations--even when it means learning to love our limitations.
Whether you are struggling with illness, or lack of energy, or a marriage situation, or money problems, or family issues--whatever it is, that is where God has you. Stop trying to be Super Mom or Super Woman and trust a super God instead.
Dear Lord, help me see You this Christmas. Help me keep my focus on You and not on my to-do list. And would you please remind me when I forget that You love me not because of what I accomplish but because I am, simply, Your child? In Jesus' Name, Amen.
(Sent by one of those amazing friends I love. Thanks, Kel.)
3 comments:
I love you, Nic.
I have thought this many times and may not have said it enough but you amaze me. I can't imagine what you are going through but you are a great role model for me. I hope that I can always give Julia what I know you give your kids on an every day basis which is unconditional love! Sending hugs and kisses.
so so true. tears. thanks.
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